April 7th’s meeting could have had a nautical theme since we were talking about anchors. But anchors come in all types (not just the nautical kind). Our leader, Pat, mentioned that she looked up the definition of anchor because at first she thought of it as just something that weighed you down. Not the most positive mental image. But she discovered another definition that worked for us – source of security or stability.
She asked us what we saw as anchors or sources of security/stability in our lives. Some of us felt that belief in the plan and that it works was an anchor. Others said that a picture of “before” could work to remind you of where you were and how far you’d come. Clothes can be an anchor or reminder – now they now longer fit or you are now fitting into something you couldn’t before. Pat mentioned that a member in a different meeting said her collar-bone was her anchor. She couldn’t feel her collar-bone before she joined WW and now she can. Nice thing is her collar-bone/anchor goes with her everywhere and is a constant reminder. I like to use my key chain that I earned from WW as my anchor. I use it for my work keys and every time I take it out to unlock a door at work it reminds me of where I was and how far I’ve come. One member reminded us that the meetings and the people who attend can be anchors for us. If she needs support she can just call on one of us to help her through that spot.
Meetings are definitely a good anchor to have no matter where you are in the plan (beginning, maintenance or lifetime). Remember this is a lifestyle we are working on and not a life sentence! If you had a bad week you need a meeting and if you had a good week the meeting needs you.
So what do you use as a reminder or to anchor yourself on your journey across the healthy lifestyle sea?
Last week’s meeting was about acknowledging what works for us in the program. Lots of great info came out of that meeting. One member commented that she had been going crazy with grapes the previous weeks. Turns out you can have too much of a good thing. I know this as well – if I eat too many high glycemic fruits I pay for it. Even though fruits are zero points you can have too many and they can add points on. If you still want to keep fruit in your program just try to pick more lower GI (glycemic index) ones like berries and less high point ones like bananas or watermelon.
Several of us commented that sleep is very important to the weight loss journey not to mention just general health. I know for a fact that weeks where I didn’t get enough sleep that scale (as well as my general well-being) reflected it. Make sure you get at least 6 or more good solid hours of sleep.
One member had a wonderful insight (I do like where she comes from – she makes me see things differently and for that I thank her). She sees each meeting as a class. It is a refresher on what she needs to learn. What a wonderful way to look at things. I was really surprised that I, as a trainer, didn’t think of that. Sometimes you can’t see the forest for the trees and you need someone else to point it out. I’ve always said my favorite part of training is when I too learn something.
One member said that she used to say “well I only lost __ lbs.” but when she picked up a 5 lb. bag of flour it reminded her of just how much she lost and what she had been carrying around. Sometimes we need those tangible reminders to see what is working for us.
We then listed all the things we know work on the Weight Watchers program:
- Number one thing mentioned was – Tracking! Indeed I had fallen off the tracking bandwagon and last week really saw the results of it. This week I got back on and look forward to my weigh-in today. Tracking really is the strongest tool in our arsenal You can’t change your bad eating habits if you don’t know what you are eating. We think we know but we can easily block out that candy bar or bag of chips if we don’t write it down!
- Exercise – just move. It doesn’t have to be at the gym just add more movement to your daily routine and the effects will show.
- Portion control – along with tracking these two really make a big difference.
- Water – drinking it not only fills you up but your body needs it. I read an article once that said most of us walk around dehydrated – we just don’t get enough water.
- Setting small OBTAINABLE goals – instead of looking at that final number and thinking I can’t possibly lose __ lbs. Focus on the first 5 lbs, 5%, 10%, etc. Not only are they easy to set and reach when we celebrate at the meetings all of us feel good.
- Setting REASONABLE expectations – if our expectations (I’ll lose 4lbs this week) are set too high we really are setting ourselves up for failure and get easily discourage. Don’t sabotage yourself that way.
- Forgive yourself – this segue ways perfectly from the previous point. If your expectation is set too high – learn from it, forgive yourself and move on. We are all human, we are going to make mistakes but the best thing we can do is learn from it first and then forgive ourselves.
- Don’t deprive yourself – this is one of my favorites. So many people start off with good intentions and try to cut every bad thing out of their diet (no sugar, no salt, no chocolate, no……) That is great but not very realistic. Go ahead, have your cake and eat it too. Just make sure you track it, acknowledge it and forgive yourself if you need to. Giving into those occasional “goodies” (whatever yours maybe) makes doing this program a whole lot easier than those “diets” out there that make you give up everything. Goes back to being realistic with expectations.
- Honesty – I liked this one. Let’s be honest, we aren’t always so honest with ourselves, our tracking, our exercise, etc. We are only fooling ourselves but really we aren’t because we know. Be honest in your tracking, exercising, etc. even if your honesty is that I didn’t track this week or I didn’t exercise as much. Just keeping yourself honest will let you see patterns and figure out how to do things different or better next time.
- Healthy Checks – making sure we get all of those in (love seeing the smiley face). I was one who didn’t believe that the 2 teaspoons of healthy oil was important. I knew that oil was high in fat what on earth was Weight Watchers thinking? But I remember how things changed for me once I started doing that religiously. Good lesson for me to learn that they have researched this, tested it and it works. What I was doing wasn’t so don’t think I know better.
And I’ll add to this that Meetings is definitely one of the things that work. They are now my Saturday morning class. I owe that to myself. I love the wisdom that comes out in each meeting. I love learning new things or being reminded of old ones. For me it is an important part of my program and it is part of what works for me.
We are all just works in progress but hopefully we can use some of the great wisdom documented here to help us with our progress.
Almost caught up on blogging 🙂 March 17th’s meeting was about “Nix Negative Thoughts”. Something that we as humans often do that undermines our successes. I wasn’t sure how this meeting would go but I loved how Pat, our leader, focused on the positives and not the negatives. She turned those frowns upside down. And so did the members.
One member mentioned that having children can actually help you. Because they are so active they keep you more active. You can take a moment while waiting between soccer games, dance practice, etc. to move. Be inspired by your kids and their energy levels.
Pat asked us if we got motivated more when the scale was up or down. Several members said that when it’s down it motivates them more, pushes them to tighten up the program, makes them mad so they refocus their efforts. One very wise member pointed out that her life isn’t about the scale but about being healthy. She didn’t want to focus on the number on the scale but all the healthy choices she was making because of joining Weight Watchers. In the long-term it isn’t about a dress which will be gone in a few years while she will still be here. I loved her very POSITIVE attitude!
Although tracking can be a chore for some (I’m one of them) let’s turn it around. We all agreed that when we track we do much better. One member said she tracked everything religiously. It didn’t matter if she went over her allotted number of points she just tracked it all. What great accountability and a fantastic record to look back at and see what worked for you and what didn’t. I truly love all the wisdom shared by our members. Another member said that she liked tracking because she was in control of that instead of food being in control of her.
One member who said it made him angry when he gained (it motivated him to do better because when he thought about it he knew what he did wrong that week) – shared a very funny quote from Rodney Dangerfield “Willpower is when you get the electric chair and for your last meal you still stay on Weight Watchers!”
Some things we can do when those negative thoughts creep up on us:
- recognize them – sometimes just giving them a name or acknowledging them gets them out-of-the-way
- don’t dwell on them – counter them with some positive thoughts (okay, I gained this week but it was ONLY .6 lbs! or okay, I gained this week but it will motivate me to look at what I did and correct it)
- embrace flexibility – one of the great things about this program is you customize it so it works for you (e.g. simply filling vs. tracking)
- bounce back – when things don’t go exactly as planned, acknowledge it but focus on what you can do to move forward – forgive yourself, after all you are only human 🙂
- plan in advance – planning out your menus or things you have to do that week will help you keep on track
First off I most apologize for being so behind in my blogging. I could give you plenty of excuses (legit ones even) but I won’t insult your intelligence. I made choices in my life and blogging the last couple of weeks just wasn’t one of them. There I owned it! Okay onto the good stuff.
Our March 10th meeting was all about all about measuring. It was a great reminder (especially to me since I’m on maintenance and have gotten a bit lax in my habits) to all of us that after doing the program for a while we tend to loosen up. Our challenge was to take a look at how we measure our portions.
Lots of things can get in our way (just like getting in the way of blogging) and they keep us from measuring (or tracking, etc.). Life gets busy, too many commitments, we eyeball or guess at sizes, in a hurry, eat out too much or use incorrect measuring instruments. As one person pointed out if you’ve been eyeballing your measurements it tend to get a bit bigger over time. What started out as a quarter cup can especially sneak up to a half cup without us realizing it but we are only tracking the quarter cup points!
Some suggestions were to use a smaller plate. Almost every chef/cook I’ve ever talked to or watched on TV will say that you “eat with your eyes first”. This isn’t all about Martha Stewart and presentation (although that isn’t to be discounted) but we can actually trick ourselves out by using smaller plates, bowls, etc. Our leader, Pat, gave us a prime example. In a normal size cereal bowl she placed 3/4 of a cup of cereal. It looked like there was hardly anything in the bowl. Our minds might think we are getting cheated or that won’t satisfy me so I’ll just add a little more. She took the exact same cereal (and amount) and then placed it in a smaller bowl it looked like a bonus!
Measuring is important. Sometimes you are over doing it but other times you might be surprised to find out you aren’t giving yourself enough. Some suggestions to help you stay “on the level” with your measuring:
- Use the proper tools (like the very attractive Weight Watchers Easy Measure Spoons)
- Level those measuring spoons (1/2 cup is not a ROUNDED 1/2 cup)
- Ask servers about the portions (servers/waiters can be your best ally)
- Track those extra BLTs! (bites, licks, tastes = they add up)
Our leader, Pat, remarked at our next meeting that she focused on her dairy creamer in her coffee. She had not been measuring it and had just been guessing by the color of the coffee as to when to stop. She was really surprised to find out that she was using too much. Also she discovered that if she used Half & Half instead of dairy creamer it got lighter a lot sooner (so less tablespoons). Nice to know even those who have done the program for years need reminders to measure.
I don’t know about you but I can always use some help when shopping – especially at the grocery store! I saw something posted on Weight Watchers Supermarket Foods Facebook page that got me thinking about all the great help we have available to us so I thought I’d list some of my favs here:
- Hungry Girl’s Official 2012 Supermarket List (this is what got me thinking)
- Skinnytaste.com – one of my favorite web sites for recipes but it also has a shopping list feature which leads me to
- ZipList – which is not only a web site but they have an app for your Android or iPhone (love this app use it every week – some of the cool features is it allows you to scan UPC symbol on packages and will automatically enter them into your shopping list, being able to select my store [Giant Food] so things are grouped according to how they arrange the store, being able to list the number of items I need (6 cans of chicken broth), price and size plus a lot more)
- Weight Watchers Barcode Scanner (available for iPhone & Android) – LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this! It is a time saver in the supermarket. The other day I was trying to find string cheese that was only 1 pt, so I was able to scan the UPC code and the app did the rest! It told me how many points and gave me the option to track it. It also keeps a history of items I scan and I can add them to a shopping list.
So if you are like me and love how technology can help you (okay when it works or we aren’t doing it wrong) then I suggest you try some of these to see if they don’t make your next shopping trip a bit easier.
So what kind of excuses have you made? Here are some:
- it’s too boring
- it’s too hard
- I’m too tired
- I don’t know how to do that type of exercise
- takes too much time
- the weather isn’t right to (walk/run)
Getting the body moving is obviously healthy (and this doesn’t mean having to spend hours at the gym either) but what other benefits are there? Here are some that our members came up with:
- it can help to lower your blood pressure and/or cholesterol
- can lessen the amount of medication you may need to take for some conditions (but don’t substitute exercise for meds without checking with your doctor first)
- can help to lower stress
- can help elevate your mood (especially good if you are prone to depression)
- can get more done in a day if you are up early and get the exercise out-of-the-way
- gives you more energy
- it can be a social activity and can help you make friends (dog walking, group exercise classes, etc.)
- vent to a friend while walking (good for your mental and physical health)
So we know it’s good for us and we know the excuses we come up with but what can we do to keep “excusersize” out of our lives?
Members suggested the following:
- be creative – one lady does squats while drying her hair!
- break activities into small chunks – makes doing exercise more manageable
- start small – you don’t have to run a marathon – walk before you learn to run
- sneak it in whenever you can – you don’t have to set aside a formal time to do it, just find 10 mins here or there and MOVE
- check your expectations – don’t set them too high so that you fail make them realistic
- starting out slow and build gradually
- challenge yourself when you get stuck on a plateau – ramp it up just a little to get over that hump
- have a Plan B in case Plan A doesn’t work (can’t run because of the weather – do your exercise inside on a Wii Fit or something)
- remember it doesn’t have to be so regimented – not always the same time every day – mix it up a little
- go at your own pace – don’t worry about others around you they also started at a slower pace when they were beginning
- park at the further end of the parking lot
- take the steps instead of the elevator
- Most importantly if you don’t exercise when you had planned to – let it go, forgive yourself and MOVE on. Just get out the next day and move.
Our leader, Pat, asked by show of hands who liked exercise and who didn’t. I’ll admit I’m definitely in the “don’t like” category. But I’ve learned that I need it. I can’t maintain a healthy life and enjoy the things I want to do without it. All the time I wasn’t exercising I was paying for it. It is hard for me to get up at 4:50 every morning and go to the gym but I love the benefits. I feel better than I have in years, I have more energy, I love the feeling after a good workout (endorphins), I look better too! So every time I go to excusersize I try to remember how much I love the benefits of exercise even if I don’t like doing the exercise itself.
Last Saturday our meeting was suppose to cover the topic of STRESS. I certainly could relate to that last weekend and wish I had gone to the meeting but I didn’t. If anyone reading this attended the meeting I’d love to know what tips/tricks our members brought up in the meeting. Please feel free to comment and let me know.
I had a very full day last Saturday. First there was 1.5 hours at the gym (including sauna), then at 12 noon I had to be at our Miller Branch to help take the computers down in preparation for our gala fundraising event – Evening in the Stacks: Masquerade! After that I had to come back home (work in Howard County, live in Baltimore County) and hit the grocery store. That meant I had to prep my list, look at recipes and figure out what other items I needed…once home it was time to put away all my little gems. Next I had to fix dinner for the boys and then get ready for Stacks (I was working the event). I didn’t get home until 12:30 and I had been up since 5am, needless to say I was tired.
Other than missing my meeting (something had to give that day and even though I missed it I was glad I did as it gave me a little breathing room in my hectic day) I feel I pretty much stayed on track with things and didn’t let the stress of the day get to me. I made sure I had my protein shake before hitting the gym, came home and had a yogurt and then before going to the store I had a salad with cheese, lunch meat and no-fat dressing. While unpacking the groceries I had a Weight Watchers snack for only 3 points. My biggest challenge was going to be the event as there is always yummy, tempting food a plenty.
Once there I allowed myself only 2 glasses of Prosecco (4 oz. = 3 pts) and I headed to the veggie bar. Had plenty of raw veggies, a little bit of spinach dip (with no bread) and only 2 small pieces of cheese. I kept away from the Cesar salad and pasta bar (although it did look good) and headed over to the carving station where they had roast beef and turkey. I did help myself to a 1/3 cup of mashed asiago cheese potatoes (they were too good to pass up). I ended the night with water and a couple of yummy cookies and a whoopie pie. I totaled my points the next day and found that I had only had to use about 4 of my weekly points. After all the activity points (1.5 hrs at the gym, 1.5 hrs logging computers around, 4 hrs walking the event in 4″ heels) I earned that day I felt I had done really well!
All of this made me reflect on what a difference a year makes. Last year when I attended Evening in the Stacks I was not at my most healthiest but this year I’m much better all thanks to Weight Watchers, the members and most importantly my great leader, Pat!
|Evening in the Stacks 2011 (or before WW)||Evening in the Stacks 2012 (or after WW)|
No, not bacon, lettuce and tomato sandwiches (although that sounds really good right now) but instead Bites, Licks, and Tastes. Our meeting on Saturday was all about tracking. I’m glad it was because I’ve not been doing my best with it recently. It was a good reminder for me to hear. We talked about all the different things we track and not just WW items. Some members keep track of their kids schedule of activities, gas mileage, car maintenance, but we also keep track of our points, our healthy checks (water especially), and those activity points! If you stop to think about it we do a lot of tracking during a week. Some found that tracking points is a chore and I have to admit that I can fall into that category. Others like doing it because it gives them a real sense of accomplishment. All I know is we do better when we track (I’m certainly proof of what happens when you don’t track).
Some members really liked the smiley faces you see in e-tools when you’ve hit your markers for your healthy checks. Who says kids are the only ones who like to get star stickers or smiley faces for doing something correctly? I loved the saying one member’s doctor said to her (and I paraphrase) “Do you go out and write ridiculous amounts of checks when you don’t have the money? Then why are you spending your points that way?!” That really hit home with me – don’t spend points that my body will have to pay for later. Don’t get into debt with your money or your body. Neither is healthy for you. Track now so I don’t pay later.
Our leader, Pat, talked about an option for some that might make their tracking easier – Upside Down tracking. This would probably work better for those who don’t use e-tools and use the paper tracker. Instead of you thinking 6am until 6pm one day and factoring your points then – try 6pm until 6am the next day as one day. Same number of points for each day but maybe turning things upside down might work better for you especially if you don’t have a normal 9-5 kind of lifestyle. I love that Weight Watchers gives us options to be flexible with the plan. I really believe that is one of many reasons why it works for so many. Being able to tailor it to your life and needs makes it so much easier to makes those changes become a habit and a lifestyle change.
We ended the meeting with this great reminder that all those B.L.T’s do add up!
P.S. A member mentioned something about the YMCA having a special offer going on. I tried Googling about this but couldn’t find anything. If you know more about this would you please comment. Thanks!
Those of us old enough to remember Bill Cosby’s standup routines before his successful television series probably remember his take on breakfast. I love how he justified giving his kids chocolate cake for breakfast. Now a study has come out saying that Bill might have been right after all!
Both the The Telegraph (in the United Kingdom) and Today Health both mentioned a study that says eating chocolate cake as part of a full breakfast can help you lose weight. I brought this up at our Weight Watchers meeting on Saturday. I’d be happy to “take one for the team” and try doing this for a week. So I went home and made this recipe from Skinnytaste.com. Regardless of whether you watch your caloric intake or not this has to be the most tasty, moist, chocolatey cake I’ve ever eaten. Great thing is it’s only 4 points!
I don’t know that I truly condone chocolate cake for breakfast as we all know sugar and refined flour aren’t the best things for our bodies. Many of us have sweets listed as our trigger foods but I think the main idea I get from this study is to make sure I don’t forget to include some of my favorites (like chocolate cake) into my diet. Deprivation only makes you crave things more and give in with disastrous results. So my solution is to make a point friendly cake (I made it into cupcakes for portion control vs. a sheet cake) and enjoy every once in a while. After all, Bill couldn’t have been completely wrong, could he?
It was inevitable, considering where I work, that at some point I would have to post some book recommendations. Two titles revealed themselves to me today. Although I’ve not read either (one I have the other, I will have to purchase) they both seemed promising so I thought I’d share them any way.
The first title I spied on our new non-fiction cart at the Howard County Library – “52 Small Changes: One Year to a Happier, Healthier You” by Brett Blumenthal. The title alone intrigued me. From skimming through it (and reading the back cover) it seems to adhere to many of the same things we learn in Weight Watchers. I loved the first line on the back cover and I quote “Let’s face it: change is easier said than done, especially when it comes to managing your health amidst the chaos of everyday life.”
The basis of this book is to make 1 small change each week and in a year’s time you’ll be healthier and happier. Very much the same thing we learn at Weight Watchers. Our leader, Pat, often asks when someone has a celebration “What did you change or do differently?” Each of us changes many things from eating healthier to exercising more to controlling our portions. I think this book can only help me on my journey and support what I’ve already learned from the wise and wonderful members of Weight Watchers. I highly recommend reading it – check your local library or buy from your favorite bookstore.
The second title came to me via Facebook this afternoon. I happened to check my news feed when I saw a post from Weight Watchers Supermarket Foods about a new cookbook “Weight Watchers One Pot Cookbook“. Again I haven’t read these recipes yet so I can’t really say how great this book is but I’ve not been disappointed by any of the Weight Watcher cookbooks I’ve bought so far. What I really like about this link on Facebook was that the site selling this book links to many vendors including Kobo, Sony Reader and iBooks so for those who love e-books you have options and for those who love “tree books” you can order from Barnes & Noble, Amazon or Books a Million among others. I downloaded samples from both Barnes and Noble and Amazon.com for Kindle to use on my Asus Transformer Prime tablet.
I’m looking forward to both of these titles (one in “tree book” form) and the other (the cookbook) I’m going to purchase in e-book format so I can use it on my tablet while cooking. I don’t think you could go wrong with either one as you will gleam some piece of information or a recipe that can change, even if it’s a small one, how you are doing things today.